A breakup in polyamory can be just as devastating as in monogamy. The difference is: if you’re partnered while grieving, there are both pros and cons. A pro is having built-in support, someone who can hold you, remind you you’re lovable, and help you stay anchored when your brain is spiraling. A con is that sometimes you want to fall apart in private, but you still have the responsibilities of your other relationship(s). Nick and I have been through so many breakups together. At this point, we r